you don’t. you want people you like to crush on you. you want mutual crushes. having people you feel nothing towards crush on you is literally the most uncomfortable thing imaginable. one-sided crushes can ruin friendships completely even if you tried to keep things as they were. crushes sound “cute” but if you can’t return the feeling it becomes whatever the opposite of cute is. this has been a psa.
Remember that time Ming-Na Wen (possibly best known, amongst a generally awesome resume, as the voice of Disney’s Mulan, and currently as Agent May on Marvel’s Agents of S.H.I.E.L.D.) watched Hank’s video on the Hong Kong protests and joined the ranks of Nerdfighteria?